"Media tributes to [Jovan] Belcher are problematic because they place him, those who witnessed his death, and those will play for the Chiefs without him, before the life and memory of the woman he murdered. When we reduce Kasandra to a role in relation to Belcher in headlines, only refer to her by her gender, or render her nameless and make no mention of her at all, we strip her of dignity and humanity and make her a mere casualty of a “larger” tragedy."